F*ck the old story.
Choose like you mean it.
Learn to trust yourself again.
I work with people at the beginning of real inner work who are tired of self-betrayal — in relationships, decisions, and direction — and are ready to do something about it.
This is structured, accountable work designed to create real internal change, not insight without follow-through.
Stop repeating the same patterns.
Move Forward with Clarity and Purpose.
You don’t need another breakthrough moment.
You need a grounded relationship with yourself that holds up under pressure.
If your life looks fine on the outside but feels consistently misaligned on the inside — this work is for you.
who this is for
This work is for you if:
You keep repeating the same relationship or life patterns despite “knowing better”
You struggle to trust your decisions and second-guess yourself constantly
You feel disconnected from what you actually want — not what you should want
You’re early in serious inner work and want structure, not spiritual bypassing
You’re willing to be honest, uncomfortable, and accountable
You aren’t be broken.
But you DO need to be willing.
Who this is not for
This work is not for you if:
You want motivation, affirmation, or an emotional boost
You’re looking for spiritual language to avoid uncomfortable truths
You expect results without sustained effort
You want someone to fix you or take responsibility for your choices
You’re more interested in insight than change
This is not feel-good coaching.
It’s pattern-breaking work.
What I do
I help people stop outsourcing their lives to circumstances and rebuild trust with themselves.
That looks like:
clearer decision-making
stronger boundaries
fewer repeated relationship dynamics
alignment between what you say you want and how you actually live
Not because you learned something new — but because you stopped avoiding what was already true.
What Makes Me Different
I don’t offer motivation, affirmation, or spiritual bypassing. I work with what’s actually driving your behavior.
My approach is structured and demanding. Clients move through a defined six-session arc supported by intensive emotional work, midweek coaching, daily check-ins, and real accountability. Effort and follow-through aren’t optional.
I don’t believe insight creates change. Willingness does — specifically, the willingness to face uncomfortable truths and stop outsourcing self-worth to relationships, achievements, or approval.
I will pause or discontinue work if someone isn’t meeting the standard. Not as punishment, but because transformation can’t be performed and progress can’t be faked.
I don’t see people as broken. I see people who’ve learned to live in quiet self-betrayal — and I help them rebuild trust with themselves so their choices stop being driven by avoidance.
The Journey
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A 15–20 minute readiness and fit conversation
This is the first step.
The Calibration Call is not coaching.
It is not a discovery call.
And it is not designed to make you feel better.It is a short, focused conversation to determine whether the work I do is appropriate for you right now.
During this call, we will:
Clarify why you’re reaching out at this moment
Assess your readiness for honest, responsibility-based work
Establish expectations and boundaries
Decide whether a Truth Audit is the correct next step
This call exists to protect the integrity of the work — for both of us.
Some people leave this call knowing they’re ready to go deeper.
Others leave realizing they’re not yet willing to face what’s true.Both outcomes are successful.
This call is for you if:
You’re stuck, dissatisfied, or quietly off-course
You’re willing to look at your own role in where you are
You want clarity more than comfort
You’re not looking for advice, hacks, or motivation
This call is not for you if:
You want reassurance or solutions
You’re in acute emotional crisis
You’re shopping for coaches
You’re not willing to be challenged
At the end of the call, one of three things will happen:
We book a Truth Audit
I tell you this isn’t the right time
I refer you elsewhere
No pressure. No selling. Just clarity.
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A 60-minute diagnostic session for people who are done negotiating with themselves
The Truth Audit is not coaching.
It is not therapy.
And it is not a feel-good conversation.It is a structured, confrontational inquiry into how you are actually living — versus how you say you want to live.
This session exists for one purpose: to make the truth impossible to ignore.
During the Truth Audit, we will examine:
Where your life is misaligned with your stated values
What it is costing you to stay the same
The stories you use to justify delay, avoidance, or compromise
The desire you’ve learned to downplay or postpone
The gap between who you know yourself to be and how you are currently living
We do not solve problems in this session.
We do not create breakthroughs.
We do not design plans.We expose reality — cleanly, calmly, and without negotiation.
Most people leave the Truth Audit feeling sharper, quieter, and more honest than they’ve felt in a long time.
Some feel unsettled.
None leave unchanged.This session is for you if:
You feel stuck, off-course, or quietly dissatisfied with your life
You sense you’re living a version of life that isn’t truly yours
You are willing to take responsibility for where you are
You want clarity more than comfort
You are ready to stop lying to yourself
This session is not for you if:
You want advice, tools, or reassurance
You’re looking for motivation or mindset work
You want to be fixed or rescued
You are unwilling to feel discomfort
You are not prepared to hear the truth
The Truth Audit does not tell you what to do next.
It shows you what you can no longer pretend not to see.For some, that is enough.
For others, it becomes the doorway to deeper work.Duration: 60 minutes
Cost: Complimentary (by invitation only)
Outcome: Clarity, orientation, and an honest reckoning with reality -
A six-week transformational container for people who are ready to stop negotiating with themselves
The Doorway Program is not ongoing coaching.
It is not therapy.
And it is not a motivational experience.It is a structured, high-containment process designed to dismantle the internal patterns that keep you living a life that works — but isn’t yours.
This program exists for one purpose:
to support real change that actually holds.During the Doorway Program, we work directly with:
The adaptations that once kept you safe but now keep you stuck
The ways you normalize self-betrayal as “just how things are”
The gap between what you know is true and how you actually live
Your relationship to responsibility, choice, and consequence
What it would mean to stop negotiating with yourselfThis work is deliberate.
Depth is not rushed.
Intensity is not manufactured.A properly timed breakthrough experience lives inside the container and is held, integrated, and translated into real life.
What you get
Weekly primary sessions (60–90 minutes)
One guided breakthrough experience
Mid-week coaching check-ins
Daily accountability
Clear expectations and standardsWe do not rescue.
We do not reassure.
And we do not offer insight without consequence.Most people leave the Doorway Program with clearer internal authority, stronger self-trust, and fewer internal negotiations.
They do not feel “fixed.”
They feel aligned — and responsible.This program is for you if:
You are functional, capable, and quietly dissatisfied
You have done inner work and are done circling
You want change more than comfort
You are willing to tolerate discomfort
You are ready to live with consequenceThis program is not for you if:
You want advice, tools, or motivation
You are looking to feel better temporarily
You want reassurance or emotional soothing
You are unwilling to disappoint anyone — including yourselfThe Doorway Program does not promise a new identity.
It supports a return to what you already know is true.Duration: 6 weeks
Outcome: Integrated change, internal authority, and the ability to live without self-betrayal -
A private advisory session is a single, focused conversation designed to surface the truth quickly and force real decisions.
This is not coaching.
There is no ongoing support, no motivation, and no hand-holding.These sessions are for people who are externally successful but internally misaligned — people who already know something is off and are done negotiating with themselves.
During the session, we cut through the story, identify the real problem beneath the presenting issue, and name the decisions that are being avoided. The work is direct, confrontational, and precise.
Some people leave with clarity and a clear next move.
Some leave realizing they are not ready to choose — and finally seeing that honestly.Either way, the session stands on its own.
This work is not designed to be comfortable.
It is designed to be effective.Duration: 60-90 minutes
Sessions are by conversation only. Not everyone is a fit.
What People Are Saying
“Working with Travis was profound and enlightening. His insights into what was holding me back and the source of my resistance were eye-opening. His coaching was supportive and effective leading me to multiple breakthroughs. By the end of our session, I was in tears of joy and felt freedom I had long forgotten. I would highly recommend this man to show you what is possible in your life to elevate you to the next level.”
— Stephen j.
“What I loved about Travis was his perceptiveness, his ability to cut to the heart of what i was saying and reflect back to me the Truth of what i was expressing. I came in longing for or desiring a sense of calm, peace, and love and that is exactly what I was feeling by the end of the session. I would recommend Travis to anyone looking for something more in their life but feeling stuck as how to get there.”
— Brian F.
“Travis has a rare ability to create a space that feels both safe and genuine. During our session, he guided me through a meditation that helped me find real peace with past memories—something I didn’t expect to access so quickly or honestly. His empathy is natural, not performative, and his guidance felt grounded, thoughtful, and deeply human. Travis listens in a way that allows you to open up at your own pace, and he meets you exactly where you are. I came away feeling clearer, calmer, and genuinely supported. I highly recommend him to anyone seeking meaningful inner work with a compassionate and skilled guide.”
— Seth A.
Meet Travis—
creator of
The Doorway Program
Where the Sacred meets the Profane,transformation happens.
Raw truth. Real depth. No spiritual theater.
Coaching for people who are ready to stop running from themselves.
Home of The Doorway Program — the 6-week identity-shifting journey.
Who i am & why I do this work
I’m Travis — I’ve spent over 20 years in personal transformation work, studying across multiple modalities and co-creating deep change with dozens of people.
What experience has taught me is simple: people don’t change because they understand themselves. They change when they stop avoiding themselves.
I do this work because people are not broken — but many have learned to live as if they don’t deserve the life they want. This work dismantles that belief through lived experience, not theory.
I built The Doorway Program for people who are done with polite self-help, spiritual posturing, and feel-good fluff.
I didn’t arrive here because I read a bunch of books.
I arrived here through fire.
Through reinvention, heartbreak, self-abandonment, rebuilding, waking up, falling back asleep, and waking up again. I learned that every human carries a wound that silently shapes their identity… until they finally stop and face it.
Now I guide clients through that same descent and return.
You’re ready to tell the truth about your life — the truth you’ve avoided because it would require an identity-level shift.
This work is made for you if you’re:
Feeling stuck, numb, or disconnected
Tired of performing a version of yourself that no longer fits
Hiding your power, intuition, voice, or story
Hungry for meaning, depth, and alignment
Ready to confront the patterns running your life
Wanting transformation that is spiritual AND grounded
Done negotiating with your potential
My job isn’t to fix you.
It’s to walk beside you as you reclaim the parts you abandoned — and step into the life that’s been waiting for you.
This works for you if…
6 Weeks.
One Identity Shift.
A Different Life on the Other Side.
When your old story no longer fits, you need a structured path that takes you deeper than mindset work — deeper than journaling — deeper than self-help.
That’s why I created The Doorway Program.
It’s a guided, 6-week journey into:
Your core wound
The identity it created
The patterns it shaped
The truth you’ve been avoiding
And the self waiting behind all of it
It’s called The Doorway because every breakthrough is an entrance — into truth, into self, into the life you’re meant for.
If Sacred as Hell is the home,
The Doorway Program is the path that leads you inside.
You’re Here for a Reason
If you’re ready to stop circling the same patterns and actually meet the work this requires:
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